From Parshat Vayigash Vol.11 No.14
Date of issue: 30 Kislev 5762 -- December 15, 2001

 

Religious Infertility
by Rabbi Howard Jachter

This week we shall address a very delicate and sensitive topic. This essay will discuss the
difficulty that a small percentage of observant couples experience in having children because of
Halachic restrictions. Many fertility specialists in both this country and Israel are familiar
with this problem and have even given it a name: "Religious Infertility." The problem arises
because the wife ovulates before she is able to visit the Mikvah. In this essay, we will
discuss how the Halachic authorities of the past fifty years have grappled with this issue. We
also seek to provide some direction for couples that are experiencing this problem.

The Problem
We will begin by outlining an extremely limited sketch of the status of Niddah and Zavah. The
Kehati Mishnayot series presents a full introduction to this issue in many places, including
Arachin 2:1. The Torah (Vayikra 15:19) states that if a woman becomes a Niddah at an expected
time she is Tameiah for only seven days. If, however, this experience happens at an unexpected
time, then she must count seven days after the bleeding has stopped before she may visit the
Mikvah (Vayikra 15:25-28). One who experiences this unexpected event is referred to as a Zavah.

The Gemara in numerous places (such as Berachot 31a) records that Jewish women have accepted
upon themselves to always consider themselves a Zavah whenever they see blood. Hence, they
always count "seven clean days" after seeing blood. The Gemara in Berachot presents this
Halacha as an example of "Halacha Pesukah," a straightforward rule. The reason women accepted
this stringency upon themselves (see Rambam Hilchot Issurei Biah 11:1-4) is to avoid confusion
in determining what constitutes an expected event and an unexpected event. Thus, Jewish women
decided to "play it safe" to avoid violating this extremely serious Torah prohibition and always
count seven clean days.

The Ramban (in his summary of Hilchot Nidda 1:19) writes, "This stringency that Jewish woman
have adopted was approved by Chazal and they accorded it the status of 'Halacha Pesukah' in all
locales. Therefore, it is never permitted to be lenient about this matter." The Meiri adopts a
similar approach in his commentary to Berachot 31a. The Shach (Yoreh Deah 183:4) similarly
writes, "Chazal always required the counting of the seven clean days."

This situation usually works out nicely as the night of immersion will often be ideal for
conception. However, for a small percentage of couples, ovulation occurs before the night of
immersion. The Poskim of the past few decades have addressed the question of whether the
requirement of the seven clean days might be waived to permit immersion before ovulation.

Response of the Twentieth Century Poskim
Halachic authorities have unanimously responded that it is forbidden to be lenient.
Rav Yosef Dov Soloveitchik (as reported by Rav Aharon Lichtenstein and Rav Yosef Adler), Rav
Ovadia Yosef (Taharat Habayit 1:27-30), and Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Teshuvot Minchat Shlomo
2:70:1) all cite the Ramban that we may never waive the requirement for the seven clean days. 
They believe that the Ramban applies even in case of "religious infertility."

One may ask, however, why doesn't the Torah obligation of Peru Urevu (the obligation to have
children) override the rabbinic requirement for seven clean days, in a case where we are certain
that she is not a Zavah? In fact, the Gemara (Gittin 41) records the Halacha that the
obligation of Peru Urevu overrides the Torah prohibition against freeing a Canaanite slave.

Rav Moshe Feinstein (Teshuvot Igrot Moshe Y.D. 1:93) responds that there is no general Halachic
principle that permits violation of a rabbinic prohibition to fulfill a Torah prohibition. The
Gemara (Shabbat 130b) teaches that we may not carry a Milah knife on Shabbat even in an area
that is only forbidden to carry in on a rabbinic level, in order to perform a Brit Milah. One
may not violate the rabbinical prohibition against sprinkling someone who is Tamei Mait with
"Parah Aduma waters" on Shabbat to facilitate fulfillment of the Mitzvah of Korban Pesach
(Pesachim 92a and see Rambam Hilchot Korban Pesach 6:6). Rav Feinstein asserts that in most
cases Chazal did not condone violation of a rabbinical prohibition to fulfill a biblical
obligation.

Rav Ovadia Yosef cites Tosafot (Gittin 41a s.v. Lisa) who ask why Chazal (Gittin 41) forced the
part owner of a partially emancipated slave to relinquish ownership of the slave. Chazal ruled
thusly because a partially emancipated slave is forbidden to marry either a female slave or a
free woman. Tosafot ask why the Mishna states that the half slave does not have the option of
marrying a Jewish woman. Tosafot wonders why the obligation of Peru Urevu does not override the
prohibition for a partially freed slave to marry free woman. Tosafot answer that we do not
waive the prohibition against his marrying a freed woman since there is available option to
accomplish the goal and violate only a less serious prohibition - freeing a Canaanite slave. 
Rav Ovadia Yosef argues that similarly we do not sanction the violation of the seven clean days
requirement since there are Halachic and medical options that facilitate the couple fulfilling
the Mitzvah of Peru Urevu without violating the obligation of the seven clean days. Another
answer of Tosafot is relevant to our issue as well. Tosafot explain that since the woman is not
obligated in the Mitzvah of Peru Urevu (Yevamot 65b), there is no override of her prohibition
against marrying a slave. Similarly, since the woman is not obligated in Peru Urevu, there is
no override of her obligation to count seven clean days.

Halachic and Medical Options
Many Halachic authorities permit an early Heseik Tahara (before five days have passed since the
bleeding began) in such circumstances. These authorities include Rav Yosef Dov Soloveitchik
(reported by Rav Yosef Adler), Rav Moshe Feinstein (Teshuvot Igrot Moshe Y.D. 4:17:22), and Rav
Ovadia Yosef (Taharat Habayit 2:416). These authorities believe that the custom to wait five
days (or four days for Sephardim) from the start of the bleeding before beginning to count the
seven clean days may be waived (under certain conditions) in order to fulfill the Mitzvah of
Peru Urevu. We treat a custom with significantly less stringency than a rabbinical prohibition. 
This approach helps solve the problem in some cases.

Many Poskim also permit artificial insemination using the husband's genetic material before the
wife has immersed in the Mikvah. These authorities include Rav Ovadia Yosef (Taharat Habayit
1:29), Rav Moshe Feinstein (Teshuvot Igrot Moshe Even Haezer 2:18), and Rav Zvi Pesach Frank (an
oral tradition reported by Rav Ovadia Yosef ibid). Rav Ovadia and Rav Moshe write that the
child will not bear the stigma of a Ben Niddah if it is conceived in this manner. It is
important to note that many Poskim strongly urge that this process be performed under strict
rabbinical supervision to insure that no tampering or mistakes are made in the process.

Another option might be for an especially competent doctor to prescribe medicine that will
adjust her cycle to avoid this problem. Care must be taken to insure that this process does not
impinge on the wife's health.

It is important to note that the problem might be a result of the wife thinking that she is a
Niddah when, in fact, she is not. Rav Binyamin Forst (The Laws of Niddah p.34) writes, "Many
women do not suddenly stop staining on the fifth day. It is very common to find a stain on the
Hefseik Tahara cloth." Some women think that every one of these are prohibited stains and thus
do not begin the seven clean days when they are in fact permitted to do so. A couple should
consult with a competent Halachic advisor regarding this issue. This might be the reason why
the couple is not having children.

Home Remedies
Various sources have reported some success in solving this problem using home remedies. Dr.
Mordechai Halperin of Jerusalem once stated in a public lecture that he has experienced
successful resolution of this problem, in some cases, simply by instructing the wife to eat
breakfast. In fact, I recommended this course of action to a woman who approached me with this
problem and a few months later, she reported that she conceived soon after she initiated a daily
routine of eating a proper breakfast.

Interestingly, the Gemara (Bava Kama 92b) and Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chaim 155:2) urge us to eat
breakfast. The Gemara quotes a folk saying, "sixty people run, but they cannot keep up with one
who ate breakfast." Furthermore, the Gemara (Bava Metzia 107b) states that eighty-three
sicknesses are related to malfunctioning of the gallbladder, and eating breakfast can cure all
of them. Rav Menachem Burstein (the head of the prestigious Machon Puah in Jerusalem) suggested
(in a conversation with me) that a nutritional imbalance might cause an imbalance in the cycle,
and this might account for the success of this approach in some cases.

Other home remedy suggestions include eating estrogen rich food such as sweet potatoes or
taking Vitamin K. Rav Burstein told me that he has heard reports of limited success with these
approaches. However, Rav Burstein counseled that I should only advise the home remedy course to
very young wives, because these home remedies offer only limited success and often take
considerable time to take effect. He urged counseling wives to ask their gynecologists to
prescribe medicine that will adjust their cycles. One should consult with competent medical
professionals regarding their matters.

Conclusion
I have generally shied away from discussing Hilchot Niddah in Kol Torah. However, I have
discovered that there is widespread ignorance of this problem and its potential solutions. 
Since Rabbis and doctors have told me that appropriate Halachic and medical advice can help
resolve this problem in almost all cases thus it is imperative that this matter be discussed in
this forum, to shed some light on this important subject.

Postscript - Machon Puah
Moreover, it is very important to bring to the community's attention a most wonderful resource
for the Jewish People throughout the world. Machon Puah in Jerusalem provides Halachic guidance
to couples that are experiencing difficulties conceiving a child. Currently, they employ six
rabbis who are available full-time to respond to questions regarding the interface of Halacha
and fertility. Moreover, they are at the forefront of offering rabbinical supervision of
fertility procedures. It is highly worthwhile for rabbis and laypeople to consult with Machon
Puah in case of need. One may contact them by e-mail at machonpuah@hotmail.com and
pouah@zahav.net.il.

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